In their own words

The big brother we all need

I said goodbye to him because of you last night.

You're a gods gift to women honestly. We women are wired to love simply with no games and we think men are the same. Thank you thank you!

I just found you and you already changed my life and I'm 64..

The manipulation is insidious! Thank you for breaking it down.

Thank you for not making me delulu anymore

With all due respect, I never thought a man could give such remarkable dating advice to women. Thank you sir

My situationship is now my bf

Ladies listen to him! He is soooo right. Tomisin your tips are mind blowing. Thank you very much

I’ve literally left accepting the bare minimum because of you

The big brother we all needed so badly

this man giving the only advice I’ve seen on here that actually works

This is the single best advice on men you can ever receive. The men who want you don't want you to do anything for them, they're happy to pursue you

Unfortunately he is soooo right ladies and it works lmaooo it works

You're the big brother that we all never knew we needed. Thank you, this was great!!!

Guys i have tried this a long time ago and it worked !

As a single woman of 56 who never had a dad to teach me the male thinking your videos really help! Especially now! Thank you!

Wow. I feel like you took the blindfold off my eyes and woke me up. That's exactly what he's doing to me. I sincerely thank you for this.

You are officially my big brother.

I started doing this and it’s been a win win for me. Whether he steps up or not.

He's like the big brother I never had. I have 5 brothers and none of them ever taught me even one thing about men.

Can confirm this mindset changed my life. Even on bad days it’s still good

Watching your channel has influenced me to remain single. I really appreciate your work on teaching us the male condition. Many of us are finding solace and peace.

I found out he was too friendly with this one girl. I walked away and he immediately cut her off after he saw I was leaving lol. I don’t play those games. This was in the beginning of our relationship

Day 10 of ignoring ham & I WAS feeling weak until, I didn't!!! Thank you, Tomisin

I’m taking notes and honestly it works.

i can feel the right side of my brain getting bigger with every video that tomisin drops and it's become an addiction LOL, i"m so grateful for Tomisin ,we're getting smarter over here thanks to you Tomisin !!!

My brother, I watch all four of these videos and I must say everything you’re saying is valid. I noticed that also doing nothing actually works in other aspects of my life like regarding my faith.

This should be mandatory to all single women out there thank you

Once I stopped doing things to prove I was worthy, I started attracting men who already believed I was. Peace is the flex now.

I've recently discovered your channel and I've been binging on the content ever since. You are very well spoken and I love your analogies

Patience is key with this one.. but it works like magic.

This man is creating so many blessings for himself and the next 7 generations after him for being such blessing to millions of women. THANK YOU FOR giving women THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!!

If you invest in you, they invest in you. If you invest in them, they invest in themselves

I'm a new subscriber from South Korea. I'm learning English through your content. It is like killng two birds with one stone. Thank you

My biggest flex is that I was like this before and now I am not lol. Disrespected? Inconsistent? Not putting in effort?.. I see these things and I’m outta there. I don’t give second chances because I respect myself :)

Our handsome, wise big brother.

Yes! Another guy told me this and I forced it and just never called or texted first (I only responded or answered) and he was hooked! It works.

I've been single for 2 years but with my next relationship I'll try to do everything right & Tomisin you've been my teacher forreal! Thank you for your videos! You're very insightful!

I practice this daily it works

Thanks bro, for teaching the ladies how to navigate relationships with malignant men! Of course, the best advice to them would be "If you see any of these signs, walk away and never look back!"

I recently started doing this and this man absolutely right.

You are a genius Angel type of man, who isn't afraid to get kicked out of the fraternity of men, just because you broke the bro code. I truly admire your bravery. Thank you so much, Tomisin. You have saved my life.

I’ve done this for years it works ladies

Tomisin is the big brother I never had.

Because of your vid’s I’m waiting for marriage. Thanks for telling us the truth. I know these men hate your page

Tomisin. I love you so much, thank you for being the older brother on YouTube helping us all out

It’s true! I saw similar advice a couple of years ago:if you talk to your spouse like you do your puppy it will improve the relationship and it works fabulously.

Ladies make this video go viral! This is gold

I really like your content it helps me a lot

im an 18 y/o girl. never dated n honestly am REALLY grateful im learning SO MUCH about men, relationship and even myself. i will only associate with ppl of my standard. thank you~ and good day to all!

It worked it worked it worked! I asked a question the other day (Im the front desk worker at the gym) took Tom’s advice, DID NOTHING and today a customer asked me for my number.

THANK YOU FOR STANDING UP FOR US!!!!!

Tomlinson be spitting nothing but the truth I can’t believe it worked exactly like how he said it would. Suddenly the guy who claimed not to be romantic not to know anything suddenly became lucid enough to do the things and apologize and knows exactly what he did wrong all on his own

I got 5 brothers and none of them taught me this. Thank you

Just know how much everyone in the community cares about you! You have literally changed my life with your content. I appreciate you and your commitment so much

You are the big brother everyone needs. No one has ever shared this intel with me before now, thank you.

Thanks to Tomisins advice, I stopped wasting my time on the man that treated me like a girlfriend but was saying he had no feelings for me, and just stopped talking. He went through multiple mental breakdowns because of it but eventually (took him a month) came back with apologies and commitment ~ I am now in the most exciting and loving relationship of my life

Might be the wildest take yet, but I see the logic. Love your videos !

i trust his personal advice. when first became a student, was embarrassed about the way i handled things with guys. now have more confidence and make less mistakes... the journey has been only blessings. painful yet necessary. facing my fears and digging into the depths of what it means to be a woman is the main focus. finding my inner knowing wisdom and beauty. being smart about men is more valuable than winning the lotto. u will not b disappointed.

We need more advice like this please thank you

Hi Tominsin! Ever since I started watching your videos, it’s given me so much insight & clarity into how men think, which has helped me learn how to become a better girlfriend to my boyfriend! I just wanted to say thank you for all of your advice! Keep up the good work!

I've been watching your "I want you to do nothing for Men" video every morning for the past 2 weeks. Thank you for your wisdom.

Went on a first date and used Tomisin’s date questions. I had the guy talking so much about himself that I didn’t even share anything. I asked all 6 questions Tomisin recommended. Needless to say after careful analyzing I won’t be taking him serious but I’ll still date him for fun. No pineapples or emotional investment from me tho. Tomisin was right, I was giggling inside because he was so locked in that he didn’t even realize I wasn’t talking. He’s already asking for date 2. He paid for everything ofc, very fancy restaurant, bought me flowers, and paid for my car there and back.

A lot of women make these kinds of vids, but I appreciate it more that a dude is helping us out - idk I feel like he's got a more insider unbiased perspective than do women who had their hearts broken, so thanks man!

What also helped is the analogy about doing donuts in the parking lot, i.e. going in circles with no set end goal. I did that for the longest time with my guy, and now I realise how much time has been wasted. Now, I want to progress and fortunately for me, he does too

I've binged tomisin long enough to not want any man.

As much as I want to hate on this content, he did not speak a lie whatsoever. The best relationships that I have been in were when I was most fulfilled and happy with myself. People are attracted to that positive energy.

I swear i watch this man for entertainment at this point , he`s literally hilarious in the best way possible

Taking advices about men from a MAN is the best thing ever

you're generating good karma by helping women if all ages out. Your kindness and selflessness will never go unrewarded

It really works. Feels so good repelling narcissists and avoidants quickly and efficiently.

This young man was raised very well. Super intelligent and articulate. Kudos to his parents.

The more I learn, the more I need a video on how to feel respect for men, Tomisin

Thank you so much I wish I knew this decades ago I made huge mistakes with men because I didn't have a clue, just hope all young ladies listen, take notes and apply save you lot of stress and much more.

You just saved my 2026.

I'm 50 and I'd just like to say to any younger women here - LISTEN TO TOMISIN. HE IS RIGHT!!

So so true! Stop doing too much in the dating phase. Match his energy when you’re his wife!

As a 28 year old who has never had a man before, I appreciate you making this video for people like me. I find this very embarrassing at my age and I can't thank you enough for offering meaningful advice and answering questions I'm too ashamed to ask.

You were a wise woman in a past life. You've got that African grandmother energy. Thanks for all of this precious advice!

When I don't care, or set boundaries, they like me more. You are correct. They will try to take advantage if we don't do this.

This man has literally saved my love life!!

You are God sent. I totally detached myself from a bad guy recently because of you.

I wish I discovered your content in my 20s, you would have saved me from a Lifetime of Dating trauma and time wasted.

I wish I found your channel sooner. It could have saved me a lot of heartache, time, energy and money.

I swear this works. I text him 0 times in a day and he can't get enough of me. Lol wtf it's so annoying that it works. So to satisfy my texting urge, i text girlfriends throughout the day or call and lean on them instead during the day.

OMG.. Now I know why when I did nothing, they come in droves. The more quiet and elusive I became, the more he stepped up.

he fell in love with my words, it's been months now and he's head over heels for me to this day. i didnt know what i was doing but it worked so im here to get the science behind it and master it ahaha :)

you’re literally a life saver. Thank you so much for your content, you opened my eyes

this is the only video one will need to get princess treatment. As someone who gets princess treatment all the time, I can confirm every word this mam just said.

I have gotten princess treatment my whole entire life. Have high standards for yourself, a deep relationship with Christ, and have deep and encouraging relationships with other women. Keep praying and reject men who you cant see a future with.

I remember when I'd binge on this content. So happy that I've reached the point where I don't have one single f**k to give about him choosing her, him, it, etc over me. I CHOOSE ME!!!!

As a retired, pick me for four years he’s 100% right . Literally have it your way. Unapologetically. That’s the only way it even actually works and you never feel like you waste your time.

In my youth I pursued a man who told me point blank I was coming across as desperate and desperate is unattractive. Opened my eyes.

I love the analogy of texting as a “low quality high.” I never thought of it like that when in the moment since I’m focused on trying to develop that connection. This is eye opening stuff. Thank you!

Toxic? Absolutely not Your advice has been so eye opening to me. I’ve learned so much from you since finding you on online

"I need more time" essentially translates to: "I want to keep you around until I find someone better." That one got me good, for 1.5 years. Thankfully, I walked away and never looked back.