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I'm Begging You To Do Nothing For Him
Wednesday, November 11 at 8:00 PM EST
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I'm going live for an hour to show you what a man actually does when you stop doing his job for him.
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Three things and you're in.
You've been the one texting first. You plan the dates, you re-read his messages looking for the version of him that matches how you feel, and at 1am you screenshot the thread for the group chat. You're doing his job for him, and you're calling it love. So here's the thing, and I'm not gonna sugarcoat it. A man who actually wants you is not confusing. If you're this confused, the confusion is your answer.
Why you're gonna want to be in this room
01
How Men Actually Decide, In The Order We Decide It
Not what we say on a first date. The order it really happens in, from the first time we see you to the moment we decide whether you're someone we chase or someone we keep comfortable. I'm a man. I'm going to tell you how we think, even the parts that suck to hear.
02
Why He Went Quiet, And What Actually Brings Him Back
It wasn't one text. Men take the path of least resistance, every single time, and quiet is the cheapest thing a man can do. I'll show you what the silence is really telling you, and the one move that puts it back on his side of the table.
03
When To Stop Doing The Work For Him
Cooking, planning, explaining, keeping the conversation alive. None of it moves a man who was never at a yes. I'll show you where the line is, what to drop first, and what he does in the two weeks after you drop it.
04
How To Spot A Time Waster Before He Costs You A Year
The questions that make it hard for him to lie to you, the behavior that tells you everything, and my two week rule. Count the days on a calendar. If a man can go two weeks without speaking to you in any meaningful way, that relationship is over.
For the woman who is tired of guessing
- You're the one texting first, planning it, keeping it alive, and you're exhausted.
- You can't tell whether he's serious about you or just comfortable.
- You keep replaying one man's behavior and you still don't have an answer.
- You want a man who chases you, not a man you manage.
- You're single, dating, in a situationship, married, or you just got out of something. It doesn't matter. Guessing is the problem.
Not for you if you want me to tell you he's confused
- You want to hear that he's scared of how much he likes you. I'm not gonna say that.
- You want a script that makes a man who does not want you want you. That doesn't exist.
- You want a therapist. I'm not one, and I'm not gonna talk to you like one.
- You're not willing to stop over-functioning for a man who hasn't earned it.
About the man teaching this
My name is Tomisin. I have over 800,000 followers across YouTube, Instagram and TikTok, and women have watched over 5,000,000 hours of me explaining how men think. I've answered 1,236 paid relationship questions and done 143 private coaching calls, which is nearly 13,000 minutes one on one with women in exactly your situation. I am not a therapist. I'm a man telling you how men really think, and some of it's gonna hurt your feelings.
How this hour runs
To be there live, bring a pen
One hour. I teach, and I don't read slides at you. Write things down, because I move fast and I'm giving you actual steps, not talking points.
That last stretch is yours
I take real situations from the room and break them down the way I would on a private call. That's the part people stay for.
When you can't make it live
I record it and I send it to you anyway. You keep the recording. I'd rather you watch it late than not at all. I keep the room around 100 women on purpose, because I want to actually get to people, not talk at a crowd.
Come and stop guessing
Here's what you do next. Put your name, your email and your number in, and I'll send you the link. It's free, it's one hour, and you get the recording whether you make it live or not.
Save My Free SpotIt's free. You get the recording either way.